I had a family...but....

[gWaPito]

not in our house, i sent my misses money every month for years, now she sends her mom and aunt money every month, they both made sacrifices for her, and I understand that and don't have a problem with it

Good for you Joe
You're obviously very lucky to be in that position.
Many here like you send back but are struggling to make their own ends meet.

[joebloggs]

Good for you Joe
You're obviously very lucky to be in that position.
Many here like you send back but are struggling to make their own ends meet.

what position is that I'm struggling , i could be using the money to pay what debts i have off quicker, but then i know the sacrifices they made for years for my misses, so I'm not complaining , it's not a sprint but a marathon

[gWaPito]

what position is that I'm struggling , i could be using the money to pay what debts i have off quicker, but then i know the sacrifices they made for years for my misses, so I'm not complaining , it's not a sprint but a marathon

Yes Joe ...we are all too aware of the sacrifices their parents made for them bringing them into this world. ..my past wives had it drummed into them from the word go hence the burden of guilt strung around their necks until their dying days.

I'm talking about folks sending money when they can ill afford it. ..like choosing to do that rather than putting food on the table and clothing on their backs. This is the reality for many here