Its very hard for many men on here to understand the up bringing you have over in the phils, and it takes time to sink in too,

When my Ems started work and wanting to send so much back home to help the family i had to say stop, we come first so just hold back a little,

How wrong i was , we could afford to send money each week but it was not bread in me to do that,

My way was leaving home at 16 to find your fortune and dont come back too, and if you did well, well thats good,

But now i am married to Ems i do believe her way is the best way, give when you can and have that extra just in case for emergencies , what ever amount you send you hope it goes to the right people and for the right reasons too,