Quote Originally Posted by bhem_bhem View Post
sorry to ask you this, do you think your fiance really loves you? i'm no expert of relationship but no way i would let a guy make me feel that way. what if you 2 get married and have kids then you put on weight. is he going to dump you, pressure you on going to gym everyday, or make u feel guilty of the food you eat. i know that saying this won't make your situation gets better but i really felt the urge to say it. it's your choice.

sorry for being blunt but believe me i wish you happiness.
My exact same view. When hubby met me, my weight was the least of his problems with me!