when my husband met me, he did say in thoughts that I am fat and he admitted that to me, didnt hurt me at all as it was true but was that a hindrance of us getting along with eachother, enjoying eachones company, talk to eachother 4 or more hours every night and laughed so hard that it brought tears to our eyes with our face aching? NO, it didnt and yet he found the good, fun, beauty side of me which was important.

I did say to him beforehand that if he dont want fat ladies then we better stop now before it gets too far but it was him who wants to continue what we started. I am very straight and he knows that, I dont mess around as I have learned my lesson on love before, I dont want to get hurt anymore.

We have different circumstances in life but if you ask me, I wont go to a relationship and I wont marry a man that cant be happy and accept of what and who I am. No point anyway, happiness will always be a blur, I know you are hungry of those and you utterly deserve to be happy, anyone really.

Face him, dont be scared and ask him You are You, You can never be someone, it is either he takes it or leave it. You cant live your life pretending of someone that you cant, that is exhausting love. Be you, thats all I can advise.

Best of luck and hoping things will go smoothly.