Pre-nups

[grahamw48]

As you know yourself Mark, it's much more complicated both emotionally and practically once there are children.

Perhaps the OP should also bear this in mind.
It is a lot easier to 'safely' write a wife or girlfriend out of your life than it is to do the same with your child.

[gWaPito]

As you know yourself Mark, it's much more complicated both emotionally and practically once there are children.

Yes Graham. ..if it weren't for my boys the coming divorce would be a piece of cake.

She's got me by the knackers and she knows it