Hi dontpushme!
Congratulations on your bub.
Sorry to hear your predicaments here in the UK.
Like what Rosie said, English people have different standards like the rest of the people in the world we cannot generalized them all just because one is Middle Eastern looking doesn't have to be a terrorist.
I think your husband needs to grow a back bone or you may have serious issues in the future.
One thing I know about the English is that most of them are polite which could be good and bad, depends on how you take it.
And no, my husband cooks well and does whatever he can to help me out. I was away to the Philippines for a week and he did great. My in laws are there when we need them but none of those things where they will make judgement on what I do etc.
Communicate is the key here.
But on the other hand.. being pregnant etc thus makes you hormonal and loses your proper reasoning.
Good luck!