oh you ask for advice, then shoot the messenger.........

sorry for your b/f , i've been there, but as for problems, everyone has problems, and its comes with living, only people who don't have problems are deads ones, and yes some people do on here understand, but i don't take it out on anyone, i've been stressed all my life , last month my younger brother died, less than 3 yrs ago my stepfather died, and since his death my mom has had a stroke, broke her hip, and been close to death twice, at one point even intensive care refused to take her, and thats not including the £1000 op to save my dogs life in feb, never mind the money problems ive got, but each day i get up, hoping today will be a better day

so take it easy yourslef and wish you both good luck