wow thats a nice one Fred!
is it because of tanduay or gin?
wow thats a nice one Fred!
is it because of tanduay or gin?
I hate to be the "You told us this weasel of the bunch" but Dhang, didnt you tell us, you only met him 2 weeks ago online ?
Wow, and already you fell in love with him ? you are now telling us that you made up with this guy, fine, good for you, but 2 weeks and in love ? I think thats what you told us.
With all the advice you have been given, you decided to carry on anyway, I just hope your Neil isnt Neil from York, from Filipinaheart.com, it probably isnt...as it would be an amazing coincidence if it was, and I would be shot for being the bearer of bad news.
Neil from York who has been at Filipinaheart.com for about 2-3 years, is a professional British boyfreind of countless Filipinas who has broken their hearts with the promise of coming to see them, he then goes to Philippines on a trip where he books visits with 2-3 girls and then spends about a week with each one, he sleeps with them once having proposed marriage, and then comes up with a story that he will buy the ring and send it to Philippines, and that his business is slow right now.
The girls end up having to borrow money to meet him in Cebu, Manila or Davao, he doesnt give them any money to get home, and he is a cheapy charlie, kuripot kuripot kuripot.
After getting back to UK, he chats to them for about 2 weeks, and then changes his yahoo address.
He has been reported to Filipinaheart.com about his womanzing behaviour, but there is little they can do about him.
Just hope this is not your Neil.. !!!
Pete_Forum Moderator
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What a charming fellow this neill is im sure one day Karma will catch up with him in some way or another.
as they say fools rush in!
do you have neils address other than york?
its also funny that guys make a first post with how bad its been going,but the next time everythings fine lol
oh dear,dear!thats part of life dhang specially love...if there`s harmony theres agony.
to loved and beloved is the greatest joy on earth...
well,lets understand dhang's situation right now.. im sure we all experieced those kinds of feeling when we were inlove..we were blinded by love and we cannot think and sometimes we became crazy..
after all, it's still her final decision on what to do..we can post a lot of advises here based on our opinions on how we view the situation, or even based on our own experiences but still the last say is on her..and remember people in love sometimes get hard headed, the more u explain the more they will make their life complicated.
all we can do is to wish her all the best, and hope that her kind of relationship with her bf will work..
all the best Dhang..!
Originally Posted by ervenescence
He's in tha hammock having his tanduay
Now this is starting to get a little spooky!
Do you have some kind of spy portal?
Greetings!
I am addressing this to all those who have judged my BF based from my first post. It's like a public slander and it is so unfair. My BF is not the Neil of York and I didn't meet him at FilipinaHeart FYI. As I have said, we are okay now and that he just seem. It's just so unfair to judge my BF without you guys, knowing the truth behind his stresses in life... And I am sure that half of tne members in this forum would have committed suicide if they had to deal with the things my BF is having to deal with in life at this moment. He is only human and he can only take so much.
My BF is suffering from a lot of pains, actually 3 years of crap... He just lost his mother a few months ago and at the moment he's dealing with a lot of issues, both in his personal and business life. I just would like to sort things out and put the record straight. He just flipped for 24 hours and we are PERFECTLY OKAY now. I hope you, guys are now enlightened and have a better picture of what has happened. Please understand his situation instead of slating his personality. That is most unfair really. HE IS NOT THE NEIL OF YORK!!!
My BF has enough on his plate to deal with without people being judgemental on him. You do not even know him. He is actually a nice person, & not the guy you all seem to think he is.
PLEASE.... ONCE AND FOR ALL, STOP PASSING ON NEGATIVE COMMENTS ABOUT MY BF. I know for a fact that he is not the Neil of York you are referring to.
I know I will get the ridicules from you but it's okay. If you want to ban me, then go ahead.... I just would like to rectify the situation.
Personally,I would never ask for advice on any internet forum in regards such a personal nature.
Secondly,let me tell you..You are certainly not the first on this forum to do so and I sincerely doubt you will be the last!!
It is impossible for strangers to make an accurate judgment based on any characters or situation when they do not know the whole story with 100% clarity,however you must also bare some responsibility for posting a question open to so much conjecture.
Listen..Don`t worry about it.
Just put this brief cyber space incident down to experience and don't let it bother you..
Not worth it.
I'm pretty sure that you can still edit your posts if you want..It would almost be like you didn`t write them!!Can you please delete all my posts here? I just feel so stupid for having done things so hastily...
The internet is fickle!!
Fred.
Just fine you gave him another chance but watch out of his being bloody moody attitude!
very well said Fred..
oh you ask for advice, then shoot the messenger.........
sorry for your b/f, i've been there, but as for problems, everyone has problems, and its comes with living, only people who don't have problems are deads ones, and yes some people do on here understand, but i don't take it out on anyone, i've been stressed all my life
so take it easy yourslef and wish you both good luck
And then she starts a whole new thread!!I'm pretty sure that you can still edit your posts if you want..It would almost be like you didn`t write them!!
Thanks Kimmi..Not sure why I bother though!!very well said Fred.
Joe..
Eh up lad..Chin up!!
You seem to be doing pretty well to me..
(for a Northerner)
hi Dhang,
i have read ur post by surprise..firstly, it is u who decide to post ur problem with ur bf Neil,maybe during that time u need somebody to talk to and feels that u need to say it or u will go crazy..all of us here i assure u feels like that especially if we have problems with our loved ones..but is anybody here in the forum force u or either threaten u to post ur problem here?tell me..
second, u are saying that all those people who gave u advises and comments are unfair and considered public slander..oh sorry maybe we havent warned u that most of the people here are HONEST, and we don't like wasting people's time in making replies and advises which we know are not true and will not help the people in need..just take it this way, HONESTY begets HONESTY.
but if u dont want honest and true advises u can go to other forum and move on..
third, it is very obvious who u are referring about the post of Neil from FilipinaHeart..HONESTLY, I find it offensive on his part..I tried to read his post a lot of times just to check if he really says that he is referring to ur bf..oh well I just like to quote what he said for u to remember,
"I just hope your Neil isnt Neil from York, from Filipinaheart.com, it probably isnt...as it would be an amazing coincidence if it was, and I would be shot for being the bearer of bad news."
does he said anything there that the Neil from Filheart is really the Neil ur bf?tell me..
and lastly, people here may tend to judge(as what u said) and give advises based on their experiences and what they think of the situation..and since its only ur side which we heard here, so we only based our replies on what u post here..
well i just hope that ur relationship with ur bf will last longer than u think and everything will be ok with him..
oh but pls do remember HONESTY is the best policy..
Goodluck if everything is settled between you and your bf.. But its also unfair to be rude to all people who made an effort to read your post put thier place in your shoes (base on your own writtings) then now when everything is OK you turn everything around.... first people here dont even know you/your bf... If they say anything about against your bf like everybody says because of you created it...
If you want to clean the name of your BF please do it in a nice way.... Not like this..... OK and If theres bad comment about Niel your fault cuz u feed us wrong impression...
tiger
tigress
♥♥♥♥Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, While loving someone deeply gives you courage♥♥♥♥.
...but worse than that....he's a MANCoh you ask for advice, then shoot the messenger.........
sorry for your b/f
so take it easy yourslef and wish you both good luck
Keith - Administrator
To all those who have shown their sympathy and offered their advices, thank you so much.... In the process of clearing the name of my bf, I somehow made an impression that you all have been judgmental and had passed on negative and unfair comments on my bf. I really am sorry, I humbly admit that I am the sole reason why you made such comments because of the insufficient information that I have provided. I didn't mean to do such stupid act and I hate to justify it because I got too emotional and all. Yes, you're right that I shouldn't be posting such personal issue here... I really am sorry for wasting your time and I didn't mean to tell you that you had been too judgmental... It was really my fault... Please accept my apologies...
(this same message is posted in my second thread.... sorry....)
Thanks and my apologies....
ok
...but worse than that....he's a MANCi try to forget that !, fred i'm doing great
and kimmi
thanks Joe..
i just find her post unfair as well..
Naku Dhang,
As I said, he's just grumpy. Tell him to take mydol tablets.
And don't forget to deliver us more good news. Try not to be so sensitive about what the people here say or you will just be grumpy too. take care.
oh,whatever dhang in the first place you should have to think a hundred times before posting a thread like this...I am pretty much sure you not know you bf that much yet i know you`ll contadict me but who cares.cant you understand people here were just trying to sympatized you will hopefully your relationship will work smoothly if he continue to act like a child.!
to loved and beloved is the greatest joy on earth...
Thank you so much, guys for your insights. I appreciate it.. I know deep in my heart that my BF is a good guy and that he is worth the trust I am giving him.
Thanks!
Goodluck hope some day we read u ask infos for Fiancee / spousal visa
♥♥♥♥Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, While loving someone deeply gives you courage♥♥♥♥.
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