HELP!!! problem with brit bf

[princess_dhang]

Hi, everyone!

I feel so down and lonely and I have no one to talk to.

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What shall I do? Somebody, help me, please.....

[Alan]

Princess_Dhang,

I'm sorry but you are probably not going to like my answer - find someone else!

I wish you well.

Al.

[joebloggs]

your right there AL,
he's the one with the problem not you, maybe he has a reason for acting like this, LDR's are difficult enough

[kentish]

Maybe he's got REGLA?????????

or just being grumpy???????????

[KeithD]

You've only been in contact 2 weeks for God's sake......with an attitude like that just find someone else.....in fact you SHOULD be chatting to a few at once, and make sure they have a decent job, and are not a MANC

[princess_dhang]

Hi, Keith

My BF and I were able to work things out... He wants our privacy and I want to give it to him... Can you please delete all my posts here? I just feel so stupid for having done things so hastily... I just felt really sad and upset when I posted that message... I'm sure I will get all the ridicules from people here...

I'm sorry for wasting your time, guys.... I may be banned for doing this... I just want to let my BF know that he really is important to me and that I care for his feelings...

I'm sorry and i hope you will delete all my posts here...

Thank you
Dhang

[ginapeterb]

Hello Princess, sorry to hear about your 2 week old BF what is his problem, did he spit out his dummy when he didnt think you were being malambing enough for him, next he will be throwing the toys out of his pram...

Dont take it too hard, there are many fish in the sea for you, some of the courtships on here lasted years, mine was at least 2 years before we married, 2 weeks is a nano blip in these type of relationships.

Best of luck....dont let it get you down...

[kimmi]

hi dhang,

sorry to hear about ur situation right now with ur boyfriend..well i agree with most of our guys have said here..

there are lots of fishes in the ocean.. at least u have known the real him at this early stage of ur relationship.
u're only in a two weeks relationship but he's acting childish for his age..

Its not ur lose, sis!

[fred]

Last night, he got irritated at me because according to him, i seem to be not interested at all to him because when he asked me "how are you" i said "i'm fine... watching a TV program online"

Tell him you were watching Premier league football..
Problem solved.

[vbkelly]

sorry dang but what can i say is you just meet him 2weeks ago on online dating and you falled in love with him without knowing him well, oh thats rediculous.and now he pushed you away from him if i were you don't contact him even phone or email just live him alone and find another man

[IanB]

At least you found out quickly that he is an idiot, and so it hasn't wasted too much of your life. Good luck in finding a man who deserves you - but try not to fall in love too quickly next time!

Ian

[bornatbirth]

sadly as honest as some people can be others are not,before you get attached to anyone to quickly chat to lots of guys and think of all the stuff u wanna know about them and what they think.
and dont be to trusting let him come to u!

[Shifty-Sidney]

Hey, there are loads of decent single blokes out here, looking for nice girls (dont anyone say it!!!! lol).
Just like there are many female scammers, there are also low-life blokes too. Shop around and try a few!.

You should never buy anything before you try it anyway

[aromulus]

Hey, there are loads of decent single blokes out here, looking for nice girls (dont anyone say it!!!! lol).
Just like there are many female scammers, there are also low-life blokes too. Shop around and try a few!.

You should never buy anything before you try it anyway

After a few days in Glasgow I get back just in time so that I don't mention the unmentionable....

But you really were asking for it...... again....

From your last paragraph.... Do I take it that you will try the milk before investing in the whole cow...????

[Shifty-Sidney]

From your last paragraph.... Do I take it that you will try the milk before investing in the whole cow...????

hahaah, nope - as always - i will jump in, buy the heard and then find the foot and mouth!

[KeithD]

Dhang..............does the name Mark roll off the tongue?

[bigtombowski]

dhang, i agree with what everyone else is saying ... move on ... you will find a good guy
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[princess_dhang]

This is the story Dhang: My BF drove home at break neck speed, he rushed to the post office to mail me a letter, cos he wanted to speak to me 6000 miles away, & it seemed like i was not really bothered about his efforts to keep the communication lines open as often as possible... I was wrong.... I really love my BF and I will not go and look for another guy.... Thanks, anyway for your responses...

[princess_dhang]

WE BOTH JUST GOT PARANOID WITH THE THOUGHT OF LOSING EACH OTHER...

I LOVE YOU STILL, NEIL and I DON"T WANNA LOSE YOU...

[LEAHnew]

Don't worry Dhang it's part of experience....and besides this is informative to those who undergo same situation like you but it depends to them how they’ll handle it.
Don't feel stupid...remember if we're inlove we do feel it sometimes or most of the time

Cheers,
Leah

[Hanna]

Dhang_dont give up,just only trials...might be he have family problem....

Hanna.

[tiger@tigress]

Hiya Dhang... welcome to the forum...
Im sorry to hear your story... Give him space leave him alone for a while but be prepared to move on...

[fred]

Princess..Just as well you didn't take the early advice eh??!!

[fred]

one of them is insecurities for some reasons like, age gap? looks? etc...etc..

when he gave out brains
I thought he said trains
and I missed mine

when he gave out looks I thought he said books
and I said I didn't want any

when he gave out noses
I thought he said roses
so I asked for a big red one


when he gave out chins I thought he said gins
so I asked for a double

when he gave out legs
I thought he said kegs
so I asked for two fat ones

when he gave out heads I thought he said beds
so I asked for a soft one

I'm in a terrible mess!

[joebloggs]

have you been out in the mid day sun again fred

[ervenescence]

He's in tha hammock having his tanduay

[fred]

He's in tha hammock having his tanduay

Now this is starting to get a little spooky!
Do you have some kind of spy portal?

[kimmi]

wow thats a nice one Fred!

is it because of tanduay or gin?

[ginapeterb]

I hate to be the "You told us this weasel of the bunch" but Dhang, didnt you tell us, you only met him 2 weeks ago online ?

Wow, and already you fell in love with him ? you are now telling us that you made up with this guy, fine, good for you, but 2 weeks and in love ? I think thats what you told us.

With all the advice you have been given, you decided to carry on anyway, I just hope your Neil isnt Neil from York, from Filipinaheart.com, it probably isnt...as it would be an amazing coincidence if it was, and I would be shot for being the bearer of bad news.

Neil from York who has been at Filipinaheart.com for about 2-3 years, is a professional British boyfreind of countless Filipinas who has broken their hearts with the promise of coming to see them, he then goes to Philippines on a trip where he books visits with 2-3 girls and then spends about a week with each one, he sleeps with them once having proposed marriage, and then comes up with a story that he will buy the ring and send it to Philippines, and that his business is slow right now.

The girls end up having to borrow money to meet him in Cebu, Manila or Davao, he doesnt give them any money to get home, and he is a cheapy charlie, kuripot kuripot kuripot.

After getting back to UK, he chats to them for about 2 weeks, and then changes his yahoo address.

He has been reported to Filipinaheart.com about his womanzing behaviour, but there is little they can do about him.

Just hope this is not your Neil.. !!!

[andypaul]

What a charming fellow this neill is im sure one day Karma will catch up with him in some way or another.