Searching for a genuine filipina girl

[Jentobeharrison]

Oh dear you better choose your words carefully.

I don't think so because that's my opinion

[mercedes]

I love my old man grahamw48 only because he is a sex machine .

[tiger31]

I met my husband on Tagged.com, I was 18 back then and he was 27. Tagged is like Facebook, you can see the person's profile (pictures, likes, dislikes, interest, etc), I'm not recommending it as there are also lots of scammers in there as well, scammers are anywhere anyway. I am just saying as my love life started from there...

I sent him a friend request first along with my HELLO message after seeing his gorgeous face (profile picture). He accepted my request then replied to my message and the feeling was mutual, he was attracted to me first thing he saw my picture profile.

We started exchanging emails everyday, then decided to talk face to face using Skype. I myself sent him actual love letters in a nice perfumed piece of letter every month. The feelings became stronger and stronger each day which made us both scared of the outcome of the relationship...on my part, I thought he was just playing a young bachelors game with me, making me fall for him and leave me afterwards. I thought he was just fooling me around as he was young and people said that western men on their 25-35 still don't want to commit in a relationship as they just want sex, sex, sex and easy life. While on his part, he thought that I might be a scam, and according to him "I am too good to be true". That's why he came over to Philippines to see if I am real and to confirm our feelings to each other. We spent over a year chatting and exchanging emails everyday, then he visited me after I graduated from college, then when he went back home, both of us were struggling because we were apart so he proposed to marry me, get a fiancé visa and marry in England.

In over a year of chatting, we never talked about money. He offered to send me school allowance but I declined it. I am always put off by such a thing so he never mentioned it to me again but in his actual love letter in paper, he put some money in it along with a little present then he apologised for it.

Anyway, to make the story short, we are married for 2 years now and we actually got married twice, one here last April 2012 and one in the Philippines 3 weeks ago and we are happy...........

Me too. I was on tagged.com the only site I visited. Met my girl and 4 years later i,m still stuck in the Philippines with her lol. We want to go back to UK eventually as she has yet to meet any of my family.

[Nobby 54]

I met my husband on Tagged.com, I was 18 back then and he was 27. Tagged is like Facebook, you can see the person's profile (pictures, likes, dislikes, interest, etc), I'm not recommending it as there are also lots of scammers in there as well, scammers are anywhere anyway. I am just saying as my love life started from there...

I sent him a friend request first along with my HELLO message after seeing his gorgeous face (profile picture). He accepted my request then replied to my message and the feeling was mutual, he was attracted to me first thing he saw my picture profile.

We started exchanging emails everyday, then decided to talk face to face using Skype. I myself sent him actual love letters in a nice perfumed piece of letter every month. The feelings became stronger and stronger each day which made us both scared of the outcome of the relationship...on my part, I thought he was just playing a young bachelors game with me, making me fall for him and leave me afterwards. I thought he was just fooling me around as he was young and people said that western men on their 25-35 still don't want to commit in a relationship as they just want sex, sex, sex and easy life. While on his part, he thought that I might be a scam, and according to him "I am too good to be true". That's why he came over to Philippines to see if I am real and to confirm our feelings to each other. We spent over a year chatting and exchanging emails everyday, then he visited me after I graduated from college, then when he went back home, both of us were struggling because we were apart so he proposed to marry me, get a fiancé visa and marry in England.

In over a year of chatting, we never talked about money. He offered to send me school allowance but I declined it. I am always put off by such a thing so he never mentioned it to me again but in his actual love letter in paper, he put some money in it along with a little present then he apologised for it.

Anyway, to make the story short, we are married for 2 years now and we actually got married twice, one here last April 2012 and one in the Philippines 3 weeks ago and we are happy...........

What a lovely story I wish you both all the happiness and I hope I get the same happiness myself

[stevewool]

Nick, just take your time, just talk to anyone that comes along, thats what i did, then if something clicks between you and someone just talk to her and see what happens, start as friends, try different sites too, but remember once you have found someone that you enjoy talking to, make sure you say goodbye to the rest, be true to yourself and who you are talking too,

[les_taxi]

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f the women is jobless, why is it a red flag

True-I have chatted some lovely girls who are jobless-it's not their fault.As long as they don't pester for money then it's fine.
Also if a girl has been on site for ages it could mean all she has chatted to are western perverts-there are lots of em.

[stevewool]

so true Les, there are some bad men out there who will promise everything but give nothing, it seems to work both ways,

[Jentobeharrison]

Red flag means a warning, not really to avoid. No offense but I would rather look for a job first and be employed first before sitting in front of my computer and log in on dating site.

Maybe I am thinking too much, but as I said, those were my opinion. If I see a man whos been a member of a dating site since 2008 and will be chatting with me now, I would really wonder why he is still there.

[stevewool]

No offense taken at all,
The internet chatting sites as i call them was the best thing that happened to me, but as i keep saying you must be upfront with who ever you are talking too, and that means both of you, why waste your time and there time too,

[les_taxi]

As soon as i start chatting I bring up the fact lot's of girls ask for cash and how as a stranger do they expect me to send them £300 after 20 mins of chatting.
I then gauge how the girl I'm chatting to reacts.
I also ask for total honesty and ask if they are regually chatting to anyone else,I also tell them if I am.
I believe it's the beat way.
I'm doing that very thing now-I have 2 girls who I chat to often and hopefully that will be down to one-which one i have no idea yet.
I think chatting to a couple helps in the fact you should not put all your eggs in one basket til you are sure.

[fred]

[les_taxi]

I think they are hard to find in uk . most seem to be married.
Maybe i should go to ripon barrio?

[Dedworth]

I think they are hard to find in uk . most seem to be married.
Maybe i should go to ripon barrio?

Nothing ventured, nothing gained Les At the very least you can promote Strayline

[bigmac]

also--if you do get something started---make sure --ASAP--the woman isnt married--or "separated". if you find she is--then factor in several £ thousands and many extra months-----to get her unmarried.

[les_taxi]

I will get a t shirt saying free and single!

[bigmac]

i think any single--filipina lady--settled already in this country-----is likely to be just like any other English rose----ONLY interested in a george clooney-clone with a good job, fabulous house and lifestyle to match. Us working class oiks have got no chance---especially if you think you can pull a younger model.

[Dedworth]

i think any single--filipina lady--settled already in this country-----is likely to be just like any other English rose----ONLY interested in a george clooney-clone with a good job, fabulous house and lifestyle to match. Us working class oiks have got no chance---especially if you think you can pull a younger model.

Now I know what my wife sees in me

[aprilmaejon]

i think any single--filipina lady--settled already in this country-----is likely to be just like any other English rose----ONLY interested in a george clooney-clone with a good job, fabulous house and lifestyle to match. Us working class oiks have got no chance---especially if you think you can pull a younger model.

I don't think any British Citizen Single Filipina will only be interested in a George clooney-clone with good job, fabulous house and lifestyle to match.I think they will still be interested in a working class men, only that they will only have eyes to a man of their age level if you know what I mean...no offence meant though for those who have 30 years or more age gaps with their partners...

especially if you think you can pull a younger model/--------no chance for that I'm afraid.

[bigmac]

I don't think any British Citizen Single Filipina will only be interested in a George clooney-clone with good job, fabulous house and lifestyle to match.I think they will still be interested in a working class men, only that they will only have eyes to a man of their age level if you know what I mean...no offence meant though for those who have 30 years or more age gaps with their partners...

especially if you think you can pull a younger model/--------no chance for that I'm afraid.

exactly. i'm so glad someone else said that--instead of me getting into trouble again.

i think most single filipnas settled here would think long and hard about getting involved and marrying anyone----especially considering their upbringing and expectations in life back home.

but--there are a few on plenty of fish---thats how i met mine--but she was already over here--on a student visa.

[aprilmaejon]

but--there are a few on plenty of fish---thats how i met mine--but she was already over here--on a student visa.

How old are you bigmac if you don't mind me asking?

I also got few friends who was on a student visa then got married to a British man of the same age as them or younger even... no to older pipz with a young heart they said. No offence meant again....

[bigmac]

How old are you bigmac if you don't mind me asking?

I also got few friends who was on a student visa then got married to a British man of the same age as them or younger even... no to older pipz with young heart they said. No offence meant again....

No offence taken Aprilmaejon.

I'm now 66----she is 44. We met in Sept 2011....she was living locally to me. She was in the UK on a 4 year Student Visa--which expired in summer 2012. She was what we--in the UK--call a mature student. So there is a 22 year age difference. But your comment about age difference is spot on!

[gWaPito]

I don't think any British Citizen Single Filipina will only be interested in a George Clooney-clone with good job, fabulous house and lifestyle to match. I think they will still be interested in a working class men, only that they will only have eyes to a man of their age level if you know what I mean...no offence meant though for those who have 30 years or more age gaps with their partners...

especially if you think you can pull a younger model/--------no chance for that I'm afraid.

So please explain, why is it different when they are in the Philippines. How is it Filipinas find much older men more attractive

[aprilmaejon]

So please explain, why is it different when they are in the Philippines. How is it Filipinas find much older men more attractive

Do you really want to hear my booooring explanation gwapito?

Here it is then.....

It is different in the Philippines because there's not a lot of single young foreign men that comes and visit the country for a holiday,work or in search for love. They are far too much busy with their work and would maybe rather choose a holiday in countries like Amsterdam,Australia, Ibiza Spain...etc.
Mostly, the one that comes in and out of the Philippines
are the retired foreigners who are on their holiday enjoying their pensions or the ones who want to settle down in the country permanently or the ones who are already married to a Filipina. So meeting a younger foreign man there and fall in love with is very unlikely to happen as there's not a lot of them around the country. (It still happens but not very common). What is common there is meeting an older foreign man as there are lots of them in the country...especially the retired ones who can afford a holiday...who got not work to come back for...so Filipinas who aim to marry a foreign man and get out of the country just settle for what is available. There's not so much of choices I suppose wherein here in the UK, Filipinas here got lots of choices....fishes are everywhere kinda type of thing.

How is it Filipinas find much older men more attractive?

I am not entirely sure about that.. If you ask me that question personally, I would say that it's not for me....not my cup of tea ... But most people said that older men have lots of life experiences, they are more wiser, more considerate ,will spoil you so much with love and care, will give you everything,very tolerant and .....

[Michael Parnham]

Do you really want to hear my booooring explanation Gwapito?

Here it is then.....

It is different in the Philippines because there's not a lot of single young foreign men that comes and visit the country for a holiday, work or in search for love. They are far too much busy with their work and would maybe rather choose a holiday in countries like Amsterdam, Australia, Ibiza Spain...etc.

Mostly, the one that comes in and out of the Philippines
are the retired foreigners who are on their holiday enjoying their pensions or the ones who want to settle down in the country permanently or the ones who are already married to a Filipina. So meeting a younger foreign man there and fall in love with is very unlikely to happen as there's not a lot of them around the country. (It still happens but not very common). What is common there is meeting an older foreign man as there are lots of them in the country ... especially the retired ones who can afford a holiday...who got no work to come back for ...so Filipinas who aim to marry a foreign man and get out of the country just settle for what is available. There's not so much of choices I suppose wherein here in the UK, Filipinas here got lots of choices .... fishes are everywhere kinda type of thing.



I am not entirely sure about that.. If you ask me that question personally, I would say that it's not for me....not my cup of tea ... But most people said that older men have lots of life experiences, they are more wiser, more considerate, will spoil you so much with love and care, will give you everything, very tolerant and .....

True we do care, also we have respect and manners!

[les_taxi]

Big mac there is something in that as the innocence is maybe lost.

[aprilmaejon]

Big mac there is something in that as the innocence is maybe lost.

They definitely lost their innocence and simplicity as they have adapted the lifestyle of the UK in terms of relationship(partners come and go), sex(Friends with Benefits), alcohol and partying... Single Filipinas in the Philippines have a low standard of expectations (you can just give them a simple flower and they will be grateful for that romantic gesture)while Filipinas who are settled here probably have higher standard of expectations(a simple street flower won't do for a romance, it has to be more so they can feel the romance in a courtship)........

[Terpe]

Some big brushes about

[les_taxi]

My filipino gf used to say not today dear it's 'Red Flag day', I thought she meant we could not go in the sea!

[aprilmaejon]

My filipino gf used to say not today dear it's 'Red Flag day', I thought she meant we could not go in the sea!

Actually, that is how I understand the Red Flag thing....I've not encountered any of that in a dating site I used to have. I will only know if the man is a scam if they put celebrity pics on their profile...or will talk about sex straight away after a short introduction, or offer money for an exchange of cyber sex....

[les_taxi]

Actually, that is how I understand the Red Flag thing....I've not encountered any of that in a dating site I used to have. I will only know if the man is a scam if they put celebrity pics on their profile...or will talk about sex straight away after a short introduction, or offer money for an exchange of cyber sex....

Yes that's what many men do-no intention of meeting