I'm chatting to a few at the moment, and unfortunately on the site I use, get the impression that after the usual introductions etc then money pops up.
Last one was maybe only 20 mins when medicine needed for Father reqd
Its them who should be cautious over you les.

The cost only £250.00 bargain I thought as I accidentally deleted her
I did meet a girl which brought me to this Forum a few years ago. She was there when I arrived, but more importantly we had spent 18 months chatting.
I would chat at least 6 months before considering going over again as it gives you a chance to see if she is genuine
My impression and knowledge of the dating sites is 2 out of 5 are genuine, I reckon.