Some visa help

[Cheshire Cheez]

I wonder if some of the guys here would also help and give info to a Filipina who wants to get married to a British guy and say "I want to get married to my British BF and live in the UK. But I won't stop chatting up some guys in the dating sites because I can get more money from them and probably would eventually meet the better man."

I think not.

Just because there is no sexual exclusivity within my life, that doesn't mean I get the other things from a relationship from off of a lady I spend an evening with.

I don't know about you, but imagine you suddenly won the lottery, you won an incredible amount of money (and this goes to everyone else reading this). Your husband says we can afford a chef now, you don't need to clean for me; is that cheating? Your husband says we can afford a cleaner now, you don't need to do any more housework; is that cheating? Your husband says that he is speaking with a therapist to help with his stress, so you don't need to be the barer of his inner demons any longer; is that cheating?

The answer to all of these is clearly no. So why would it be cheating if your husband had some sexual desires that required a woman who wasn't you, but paid for it?

Isn't it better he doesn't have a relationship with these other women, but uses their services instead?

When I go to Pattaya, I'm not looking for a relationship. When I go to Las Vegas, I'm not looking for a relationship. The relationship is my comfortable place to call home, but sometimes you just need to go out and play.

[Terpe]

.... So why would it be cheating if your husband had some sexual desires that required a woman who wasn't you, but paid for it?

Isn't it better he doesn't have a relationship with these other women, but uses their services instead?

Somewhat pointless question as it depends on the sort of partner and relationship you have.
If one of the couple thinks it's 'cheating' then it is.

If there are no more comments about visa it's better to close this thread and start a new one ......

[aprilmaejon]

Somewhat pointless question as it depends on the sort of partner and relationship you have.
If one of the couple thinks it's 'cheating' then it is.

If there are no more comments about visa it's better to close this thread and start a new one ......

Best to delete this thread...

His name is famous here for having such an intellectual mind BUT TWISTED...and women here perhaps won't give him any help on the visa...

[fred]

Just because there is no sexual exclusivity within my life, that doesn't mean I get the other things from a relationship from off of a lady I spend an evening with.

I don't know about you, but imagine you suddenly won the lottery, you won an incredible amount of money (and this goes to everyone else reading this). Your husband says we can afford a chef now, you don't need to clean for me; is that cheating? Your husband says we can afford a cleaner now, you don't need to do any more housework; is that cheating? Your husband says that he is speaking with a therapist to help with his stress, so you don't need to be the barer of his inner demons any longer; is that cheating?

The answer to all of these is clearly no. So why would it be cheating if your husband had some sexual desires that required a woman who wasn't you, but paid for it?

Isn't it better he doesn't have a relationship with these other women, but uses their services instead?

When I go to Pattaya, I'm not looking for a relationship. When I go to Las Vegas, I'm not looking for a relationship. The relationship is my comfortable place to call home, but sometimes you just need to go out and play.

What about your Mrs? Does she/will she have equal rights like a local call boy for a bit of fun after getting a bit bored of you every other night?
I`m not trying to be sarky.. A genuine question.
A guy I once worked with admitted to us that he and his Mrs were part of a swinger group. There were pretty strict rules in regards honesty etc and he made out that he was happy with the arrangement.. The problems started when we started the country wide shop fitting contracts...He was constantly on his mobile checking up on her.. He said that he trusted her but I dont think he did..
The marriage was doomed and the experiment went pear shaped once his Mrs had fallen for one of the other married men.. He was pretty much inconsolable.
A proper train wreck that was.

[joebloggs]

When I go to Pattaya, I'm not looking for a relationship. When I go to Las Vegas, I'm not looking for a relationship. The relationship is my comfortable place to call home, but sometimes you just need to go out and play.

well if your that honest on here and I hope you don't lie on any visa application, you can pretty much any visa goodbye, one of the few reasons they can refuse a family permit is , if they think the relationship is not genuine and its a Marriage of convenience', a sham or it's not a durable’ relationship.

have you sponsored anyone before for a visa

[Cheshire Cheez]

What about your Mrs? Does she/will she have equal rights like a local call boy for a bit of fun after getting a bit bored of you every other night?
I`m not trying to be sarky.. A genuine question.
A guy I once worked with admitted to us that he and his Mrs were part of a swinger group. There were pretty strict rules in regards honesty etc and he made out that he was happy with the arrangement.. The problems started when we started the country wide shop fitting contracts...He was constantly on his mobile checking up on her.. He said that he trusted her but I dont think he did..
The marriage was doomed and the experiment went pear shaped once his Mrs had fallen for one of the other married men.. He was pretty much inconsolable.
A proper train wreck that was.

Wouldn't have an issue if Angela went for a massage and got a happy ending if that's what you're asking.

well if your that honest on here and I hope you don't lie on any visa application, you can pretty much any visa goodbye, one of the few reasons they can refuse a family permit is , if they think the relationship is not genuine and its a Marriage of convenience', a sham or it's not a durable’ relationship.

have you sponsored anyone before for a visa

I kind of sponsored Lek for her visa. It's all a bit complicated, but I got her employed through a friend some years back in a position that granted a visa. Though I think the rules have changed since.