it amazes me sometimes how little research some people do on applying for a visa and on immigration rules/law, i wouldn't nor never have applied for a visa or made any sort of decision without first phoning IND, asking others on this forum and other forums, the law centre and other immigration advice centres for advice first, and made sure i was doing the right thing, and to get it right first time or as the police say, Ignorance is not a defence, you both should have checked with IND before she quit, i know its late now, just would have taken one phone call.. or a browse on the net...
but wish you both good luck
