Quote Originally Posted by Rosie1958 View Post
April, it's not what you say but how you say it. Best to address the issue when you are not feeling too emotional and suffering the affects of lack of sleep.

I didn't know my then neighbour either, he'd just returned from the Gulf war so I did leave it a few days before I addressed the issue but we could no longer put up with all the noise at night and in the early hours of the morning. I also thought that he may not even know how thin the walls were. I was very polite and fortunately he was a nice guy so we didn't have any problems after that.
Our neighbour seems to be a nice guy..and he's never a problem at all before..only then the problem arises when the new girlfriend moved into his house...and she is the problem.

In case the wall is the problem:

When I moved in here 2011, he has a GF named Kelly but we never ever heard her on this state..., not even a little sound. She wasn't a screamer like the new one now that even when we are downstairs by the lounge, we could hear her. Such a wild woman I suppose. She sounds like the girl in porn films not that I watched a lot...

I might have my husband talk to the man first..if the situation becomes worse, then Fred's idea would be very ideal.