Hi Brian, if you knew my life story you would understand where my thoughts come from, but please note I did say I do not wish to offend anyone.
With regards to family looking after one when one becomes incapable, I have no family, also my wife has no support here when I'm gone. It will be Maritess that will need someone to look after her and that is my only concern in life. She is the best thing that ever happened to me in my whole life!