My fiancé and I talked about children and we agreed to have kids 3-5 years after we get married because we still want to enjoy the company of each other, travel just the two of us, and live like boyfriends and girlfriends. But that plan can be changed, we can change, and if ever her husband promised her before that they can have children or they've talked about it before and now her man doesn't want to, it's already a broken promise. Having a kid is one of a fulfillment for a woman, and If that's the case I would feel that I was trapped and cheated as well.