Finally , the guys' side of the story.

[kimmi]

joe i hope ur wife is not at ur back reading as u typed this post..

ure an under de saya now he he he

[Bridget]

Not only under saya Kimmi, he will be outside the kulambo, too.

[kimmi]

i agree bridgette, i'm trying to imagine how joe looks by then..he he he

[Bridget]

i agree bridgette, i'm trying to imagine how joe looks by then..he he he

He will look like this...

[jimeve]

underdesaya-husbands who always follows what his wife says..

its a term used here in the philippines, since the husband is expected to be the head of the family..he is called "under de saya" when he always say yes to what his wife is saying..

I think its called under the thumb.

[bigtombowski]

that's the correct ... ENGLISH way to say it

lol

tom

[joebloggs]

she does throws things at me now and again , but misses most of the time

i'm joking about the maid bit, but i am thinking of geeting a young filipini 17/18 old maid to look after the kids

and no she dosn't come on this forum, well i hope not , if she did i would be by now


oh in a few weeks time, i think we been married 5 yrs or is it 6yrs , i'll have to find the marriage cert , who would have thought we would have lasted

[kimmi]

oh i am glad that ure ok Joe and still can post here..

Filipina are really domesticated and home body person..

btw, advance happy anniversary to u and wife!
oooppppsss......better check the marriage cert. now or u might greet her the wrong one..he he he

[joebloggs]

i can remember the day and month we got married, but not the year , i'm sure shes the same, after knowing each other must be 8 years+, its easy to forget , i mean i'm getting old , well that's my excuse

your right about her being 'domesticated and home body person..' i'm going to wake her up early tomoz so she can go up the ladder and paint the window frame, i'm too scared of heights, must be oh 25ft up , shes fearless thou or stupid ,no shes fearless



oh she laughs alot now at english comedians peter kay, and she just watched al murray and laughed a lot, and shes coming along really well now in her training on poking fun at scousers and southerners

[Alan]

Jim - good post - I would call it an 'equal opps. issue post'

Joe - some good comments

Keith - I'm AMAZED that you haven't come in on this one yet.

Al.

[Pepe n Pilar]

Hi Bridget i like your post about "How to Please your Woman".
For Jim.... very nice one... Keep on posting.

[Bridget]

Hi Bridget i like your post about "How to Please your Woman".

Thanks itsme_iye. Thats lovely to hear.
Theres more to come....

[IainBusby]

Ways to please your woman

1.Upon returning home find her first before doing anything else and give her a hug.

2. Ask her, how`s day.

3.Bring her cut flowers as a surprise as well as on special occassions.

4.If she generally makes dinner or if it is her turn and seems she is tired or really busy offer to make dinner.

5.Compliment her on how she looks.

6.Schedule extra time when travelling so she doesn`t need to rush.

7.When your going to be late, call her and let her know.

8.When she talks to you, put down the magazine or turn off the TV and give her your full attention.

9.If she usually washes the dishes occassionally offer to wash the dishes especially if she tired that day.

10.Notice when she is upset and tired and ask what she has to do then offer to help by doing a few of her" to do" items.

11.When you going out, ask her if theres anything she wants you to pick up at the store and remember to pick it up.

12.Call her from work to ask how she is or to share something exciting or just tell her " i love you".

13.Make the bed and clean up the bedroom.

14.Wash before making love or put a cologne if she likes it.

15.Offer her to give a back massage or foot massage.

to be continue.....

When Scheduling "Extra Time" remember this is a filipina and add on in units of not less than 1 day at a time.
Iain.

[IainBusby]

Contination;

Be understanding when she is late or decides to change her outfit.

Take a short romantic getaways.

Let her see you carry her picture in your wallet and update it from time to time.

Bring her home her favorite pie or dessert.

Leave the bathroom seat down.

Keep the bathroom floor clean and dry after taking a shower.

Do not critisize her family otherwise she will be a Gabriel Silang....!

I was brought up in a house with 3 brothers and 1 sister and my mum made sure that we always left the toilet seat up. That way, when either my mum or my sister decided to use the toilet, when they put the toilet seat down, they usually found it dry !!!