Been married for a year been with my husband for 2 years! My Spouse Visa application is been refused  I overstayed for 2 years as I didn't know what to do back then! My 1st marriage was a failure and I didn't want to make same mistake! We need to make sure that our relationship will last before we decided to get married! So we did after 1 year of dating, but we didn't apply as our relationship was still young and we waited for our 1st year anniversary.

My husband is my best friend. We married but feel like we're still dating! So we applied for a spouse visa but we got refused! We don't have money to take chances. We need assurance! So shall I go home and apply from Philippines? How long is the visa application process from Philippines? I don't really want to go without my husband. If we go home he can only be there for 3 weeks 

My husband posted thread on different page here somewhere 

Please please help

Hope my post makes sense. I am not really good at this 