I don't like to send money for Christmas, birthdays etc. A thoughtful present is much better, surely? Obviously there is no point in sending things which are much cheaper to buy in the Philippines either. Chocloates are not a good idea! Marks and Spencer underwear seems to go down well, plus nice smells and lotions too. Maybe some jewellry?
A lot more exciting than a visit to Western Union! Naturally, the money is expected too . . .
Ian