If only life was so simple.
Without going to the Phils you will never understand the country, the culture and the people, let alone establish any kind of genuine relationship....which is surely what you're seeking ?
Also, she may find it extremly difficult to obtain a visa just for a visit.
Would you send money to someone in this country you just liked the look of...but hadn't met ?
First step is to become her Facebook friend, and if you're the slightest bit suspicious (or just sensible), do a bit of fishing around on there.
Next...google her name and any email addresses and forum nics she uses.