Same thing happened to my wife just recently,of which ive just been informed.We were at a friends birthday party and Maricel went into the kitchen only to hear people saying that she is only using me.She did'nt tell me as she knew i would confront them head on,she was right.It does hurt to hear these things more so for Maricel,even now.Sometimes she does'nt want to come and meet certain friends because of it.To this day she still will not tell me who said it,personally i want to confront them on this issue and have my two pence worth.Ijust don't like people to get away with thing's,i would be happy to let thing's go if it did,nt affect my wife but it doe's but what can i do ?