Some people even friends can be insensitive but as it has been said you let people get to know your wife and the remarks will stop. I never had that problem from friends or family but from some people i did not know so well so i never let it bother me. My father never took much interest in the fact i was getting married last year and never even helped pay for any of the wedding but now Rhea is here he tells me off anytime i call to see him and do not bring the wife.I think he likes the fact that Rhea shows him so much respect....