It is nice to know Sir Pete that there are some husband like you who appreciates and considered your wife special when she is taking your shoes and socks off as I am doing that to my Darling and yes he would be telling me “I can do it” though it seems for him he don’t want but like it and I feel very special for him after that.
When he arrived I would always have time to take off his shoes and socks and give his slippers. When his cousins knows this they told him “Tell cinmickey to stop doing that, you can do it!!”
But I love doing it though at first My Darling feel awkwardof me doing it but that is what I have seen from my Mum doing to my Dad and even my Darling witness it until now and he is able to understand in the long run. From putting toothpaste on his brush, prepare his towel when he goes to the shower, preparing his clothes & belt, preparing coffee, taking a cold drink (Well, specially he wouldn’t say NO when I took Beer to him not unless early in the morning)hehehehe!
I am giving him a full body massage to make him relax but sometimes I ask him also to go to a massage parlour at least they are more experience but he refuse not because he is saving but he likes more my hands to do the massage.
Whenever we went out I took with me his medicine when he needs some and it surprise him knowing that I did take it when he needed while we’re out
Like Sir Peter says, it is about mutual appreciation as I am getting the pampering from him of the little things that I do. It just makes me very special too and the more I try my best to keep make him special too.
Cinmickey
