Originally Posted by
PAT
Hello louisdavid, I feel sorry for the kind of situation you are having with this girl.It is difficult because you already been emotionally attached with her.
I think it is not a culture problem, maybe it is better to put this way, if you think she lost interest with you, try to talk to her straight and think wisely..., if things wont go better, move on, do not waste your time thinking about her when she doesn't deserve it. You are still young, there are many good opportunities that come along. If she doesn't call you as often as before, call her less and see what happens - but tell her what you really feel towards her. She might not also sure and be afraid because you are younger than her.
I'm sorry if my response is not much of a help. But I am hoping for the better to you and her.