Plenty of guys in this country who would be very willing to support the kids, even move out the Phil so you can all be together.
You've got yourself involved with a muppet, and should have sorted all this out before a relationship even developed.
You only live once, never too late to change and find the right guy.
The guy hasn't got much sense either, if he really loved you, he'd fight tooth & nail to get your kids here whatever the cost. Money talks in the Phil.
Trade him in for a better model, and have a happy life with your kids, they are supposed to come first, flesh & blood. Wake up and smell the roses.
