hi lonely mum,
sorry to hear about ur situation.
i agree to some of our mates here, there's still lots of men who wont give u this kind of head aches..
i do understand how much u love ur British Bf because for sure u will not last a three years relationship with him if u dont..but for me if he really loves u he will do everything just to make u happy, and that only happens when u are with ur kids wherever u decide to settle.
but it worries me that he confessed to u that he had sex with other girls because he was so upset with u, that was a very lame excuse. so everytime he will get upset with u, he will have sex to other girls?and can u accept that?
well, i guess u'd better weigh things first..who matters to u the most?ur BF or ur children?can u live ur life without ur children?or without ur bf?what brings u real happiness, to be with ur children or to be with ur BF?
still, it's ur life...u decide..
