lonelymummy,
we can only make judgements on what we hear from u ...
my suggestion is ... find a better man. There are many. You don't need someone who will hurt u and not take care of u and make u leave your kids in the phils. Move on. You only do live once and u and ur kids deserve happiness, love and better
this is just my humble opinion and i know it is hard and it may not feel good to hear it,
but ...
for the sake of u and ur kids, u need to make some tough decisions IMHO.
tom
