I agree with Sir Keith, and other mates here, I am sorry to hear your situation Lonely Mummy as you had been together for quite sometimes and developed already.
If your worth is valuable for him for sure he would accept your children being part of you. Being rich is not the issue but the capability of the person to accept who you are and the responsibility. More problem will come if there is a chance that you and him will be having your own children in the future. The more your children from previous will be lost. He is even cheating you now and the more it will be when you live together and problems occur as it is seems his way of scaping to the problem.
As a Mum, its really very hard and difficult to leave a children because you will always be haunt by your guilt and conscience of living them. You will not be completely happy whatever success you will achieve it will not pay.
You have regretted for the wasted that you were not able to go out the country to give a better future for your children. It’s still not too late move on. At least you were able to know the person he is before you got committed again.
Everybody dream of a complete and happy family. It will come in God’s time. All things falls when the right time comes.
