totally agree with the administrator.
we are not part of the "problem", speak to the one who is and he might sort it out with you.
as you are not in a proper relationship with him as well just yet, i dont think its fair to expect/demand something that actually happens in a proper one. if he is planning to visit you well then that is a good start, surely he would have not considered it if he does not like you at all.
take it one day at a time, dont give and ask too much too soon. let it flow naturally and if it develops to something deeper than regular friendship and you realize you think you can have a relationship with him and vice versa then go for it.
good luck!
