My British bf never initiated phoning me but we regularly chat at MSN and sometimes he sends me text messages. Is it really such a big deal if he won't call because of overseas cost of calling? Most of you seem to say that getting him (bf) to call you is one great factor in determining how much he values you and the relationship. If he never calls for the entire 13 months of online relationship, does it mean that there might be some doubts? We still haven't met for real not because he didn't want to but because of some reasons. He planned several times (4x) to come to the Phils. to meet me but unfortunately he got some financial problems caused by his car. But I didn't mind at all that he failed to come to meet coz I had some work related commitments as well during those scheduled dates. Hopefully, God willing, our meeting on April this year will push through. I will appreciate your comments on this. Thanks.