people are different and everyones circumstances are different, i was chatting to me misses for along time b4 we meet, must have been nearly 2 years , even told me a few times if i didn't come and see her by a certain date, don''t bother coming at all , well family problems, work and whatever got in my way... a few times we both or one of us wanted to walk away , but we've been married more than 5 years now , we were even married more than 2 years b4 i applied for a spouse visa for her

some of us take a bit longer to do things if you love the person, you don't give up ..