No one is picking on you just trying to help its called tough love telling you the things you might not wanna here but what is more likely to help in the long run than. "Hey its all good Tom."
Oh lord why did you make so many clothes and shoe shops
gosh, personal vendetta, i don't like it ... i know we had arguments charity, but please don't bring it into a public forum this way
tom
Huh? as I remembered it right, I never argued with you nor to anybody else. So, stop putting words into my mouth! and you're the one to brought it up in the public forum and not me. Don't put the blame on me. You know what's wrong with you? You are looking for somebody to blame. That's your problem! RE-EXAMINE YOURSELF!
hi Charl, thanks for understanding why I reprimanded tommison, in the family where I grew up we never said or use that word..Even when they are already mad to each other..Though I know it is not meant for me,still I find it very very offensive and not nice to hear or say especially if somebody close to u are saying that and thinking he's a man..
Tommi listen, I keep on reading all ths posts here but i havent read Char posting any comment or divulging to the public about ur problem right now..
Like Andy have said no one is picking on u, all of us here were just trying to help, sometimes it is really hard to understand it..u might think all of us are against u, u know it is also hard on our part, remember if we are not concern for u why are we going to bother posting here to help u?
U will better understand it when u become a parent, sometimes eventhough how much u love ur child u need to reprimand him just to teach him the values in life..
We also nead to learn through a hard way..and even God sometimes reprimanded us if we are losing our faith to him..
and did u know why I am not talking to u on ym's? I want u to realize and learn from ur mistakes..especially in dealing with problems..
in five weeks time, u are at Mar's place, u think she will like it when u are like that?
tommi, be thankful u have friends here..who is willing to accept and teach u for whoever and whatever u are..
Tom not intrested in poltics and all the gossip but as outsider can i just say from what i read you have a lot of people trying to help ya and will look back and be grateful.
Im only a few years older than you but i have learned listen/read what others have to say, mull it over for a while somewhere queit it will really help.
Not all that others say will help in your situation this time maybe, but some of it will in my experience.
Experience and other views on the same situation are worth their weight in gold, look at businesses paying so much for market research and the right managers, consulants and directors.They wouldn't do it if there was no point, theyd save the money.
Oh lord why did you make so many clothes and shoe shops
Hi children,
I'm back in the good old U of K!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I have been catching up on my sleep. Will post very shortly.
A bientot a tous.
Al.
Why did I just post this here?
Ah, I know - jetlag.
Al.
welcome back Prof Al..im glad u had a safe trip..
whats her name tom?
marivic
He had a spare one all a long.....he's turning into a scouser
Keith - Administrator
huh? "he"?
more importanly have you repaired all your Phones (note phones not fones)?
Oh lord why did you make so many clothes and shoe shops
you wooll find that muny of my pusts in ere ave sugnificeenntlyyyy chaeuionged
After four days in Dublin I come back and find 628 unread posts...
I went to bed....
In the clarity of the morning, and with workmen banging away replacing the whole central heating system, I feel that I might well have lost the plot....
So although I might want to add something... I better not.
Good luck...
Tampo sucks.... I had some of that last week....
But it ended when I went for a drive in the car, on my own...
Kimmi..
Dont get so hung up on that word or any other word considered bad ONLY by some ...Except of course when used in a context with an obvious intent to offend.
No matter if its in your language or indeed ours.
ITS JUST A WORD and Im sure was not written by the author of this thread to offend you or indeed me.
I learned that particular word with the additional words "ina mo" here back in the early 80`s by hearing it many times by the locals..
I soon learned that it could be used in many different tones and tempers..
The Filipino recipients were always clear that no offense was intended and so no harm was done..EVER!!
As I said previously..Its just a word...IMO.
Fred.
yes Fred, I agree it just a word but still it means something like cursing..
and in the family where I grew up I never heard them using that word..no matter how annoyed or mad are they..
and did u know the real meaning of it when u say that word Fred?
it is like cursing to hell the mother of the person u are saying it..
Hi Kimmi..
Yes I know exactly what it can mean..
The fact is ,it is not normally used with that intent but used as a way to vent frustration or indeed other minor expression of feelings.(not too offend)..
When you go to England you will hear offensive words used on a regular basis..Just not always in an offensive way..
So don`t always be offended!!
Up to you.
Fred.
thanks for the advice Fred.. I know i need to get used of that when I get there in UK.
A figure of speech - where a word or words are used to create an effect, often where they do not have their original or literal meaning.
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