Kimmi..
Dont get so hung up on that word or any other word considered bad ONLY by some ...Except of course when used in a context with an obvious intent to offend.
No matter if its in your language or indeed ours.
ITS JUST A WORD and Im sure was not written by the author of this thread to offend you or indeed me.
I learned that particular word with the additional words "ina mo" here back in the early 80`s by hearing it many times by the locals..
I soon learned that it could be used in many different tones and tempers..
The Filipino recipients were always clear that no offense was intended and so no harm was done..EVER!!
As I said previously..Its just a word...IMO.
Fred.