thanks pete but am well sure that my husband will understand of what i have done and i really have introduce this site to him and see for himself he knows it wasnt my intention to really announce what he is into, " its ASKING for help " that i intended to have not publicly humiliate him.yes we had misunderstanding about his bank that i thought he WAS overdrawn but he isnt.(i just thought) besides the reason i love my husband bec he has very WIDE UNDERSTANDING and very sensitive of REASONS.
i believe in patience and faith anyway..i know ill get visa really soon and i think i have the urge now to prove that whatever problems me and my husband we have at the moment.