thank you so much, sis kimmi. you have been really helpful. i hope to be able to discuss all these things with him and make him understand how a hold on to my values.

the reason why i asked for your advice is that i am also afraid that he'll get discouraged and disappointed if i tell him about my worries without me asking for other people's opinion first as i am sure, most of the members here have been through this stage in their LDRs.

i hope that when i discuss these things with my BF, he won't think that i am being too traditional, conservative and overly "pakipot".... it's just that he is my first boyfriend and that he is also older than me and he had been in to several relationships before... so that's where my worries are coming from...

thank you so much, sis kimmi for your advice!