Hi, ca143!
Thank you for sharing with me your first-hand experience on meeting your bf, (now your hubby) the first time. You actually gave me an idea on how I can formulate a strategy so as to make sure that nothing will happen when we are together for 2 weeks. I just do hope that I will be able to persuade him to agree with me.
Well, i guess the members here are right in saying that if he does not agree and back off and cancel his bookings to see me in December, it only means one thing. I hope to be able to bring this up to him this week... I just can't find the courage to tell him directly that i cannot give it to him when he come to see me. I really am excited to see him, but I also don't want him to expect a lot from me, that it will come to a point where in i will give in and lose my values.
Thank you so much!