thank you so much, tom for your advice. i'll take heed of it. i hope to have the courage to tell all my fears and worries to him before he come and see me.

by the way, i have read your posts... sorry to hear what had happened to you and mar. (sorry to remind you about it, but as you said, you have moved on... pretty quickly) but, who knows? maybe it's just part of the test of your relationship... and in the end, you will eventually end up together...

sorry, but i think i'm not in the position to say these things! i am totally new to relationships so what do i know about it? sorry, tom...

thanks for your advice! i do appreciate it