He is 52, he lost his job last December, he is not trying to apply for another one and he chooses to look after my daughter while I'm out working. But it's not a good idea, as we are always fighting about money. He always wanted me to pay all the bills and he is controlling me!! The Filipina is my friend, who's separated from her husband. I used to help her and I didn't know that he got my friend's number. It's all complicated!