I don't mean to put a dampener on anything and I'm speaking from my own experience and from the stories I've heard but that can lead to a false sense of security. My ex didn't ask me for money until after two years, then it gradually escalated and the rest is history. I'm not saying this will happen but you need to be aware of it.
Also, you need to be aware, that if you bring your Filipina to this country, she will most likely have to support her family. Whether she's prepared to do it herself or expects you to do it is the big question. Can you or are you willing to provide for them? What if you decide to have a family of your own?
Enjoy your time in the Philippines with your woman. It definitely beats dating a bird down the Red Lion on a Friday night, that's for sure.
It's new, it's exciting and kind of daunting and I definitely don't regret doing it myself even though things didn't work out for me last time.
If you do get on, just don't rush into anything and take your time. What with the expense and red tape involved bringing her over plus the points I made previously, it's a decision that can't be taken lightly.
Originally Posted by Ako Si Jamie
I don't mean to put a dampener on anything and I'm speaking from my own experience and from the stories I've heard but that can lead to a false sense of security. My ex didn't ask me for money until after two years, then it gradually escalated and the rest is history. I'm not saying this will happen but you need to be aware of it.
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