Quote Originally Posted by Ako Si Jamie View Post
I've just thought of something, Jack.

I can't see a woman who is very career orientated wanting a baby, unless it's a number of years down the line. Also, who's going to look after it when it's born?

Is she just saying this to get what she wants then when the time comes to try for a baby turn around to you and say something to the effect of "I've got a career now, how can I have a child?"

If I'm being brutally honest Jack, I think she's got you wrapped around her little finger and see's you as a doormat.

Excellent posts, Fred and proudmummy.
My misses was working and studying up to a week before little Joe was born. Three wks after his birth, she was back working and studying. It's not easy but not impossible either.

But as you've said Jamie, it could all be delaying tactics. Once she is registered as a nurse, maybe she can get a work permit if she doesn't have ILR

But Lordna, I've got to agree with you. Walking away shouldn't be an option until they've tried counselling from someone like Relate.