I am a crewing manager for a shipping company so in charge of approximately 100 Filipino seafarers most of whom are already married but we have a handful of single ones who are always being pushed to find a girl and make a move on someone. Honestly the guys are worse than the girls for gossiping and that kind of thing!
Anyway one of the guys I knew was single had caught my eye but he was different from the rest, a little quieter and never showed any interest in the Filipina ladies that used to visit the ships. Eventually one of the married ones I was close friends with introduced us properly and we then became friends on facebook. I never imagined anything would come of it as he was one of my employees but as we chatted more we got closer and the rest is history.