I understand what you are saying, and the only answer I can give is what Fred has said, the OFW!

I know of a family who have a great home - 3 apartments attached and a shop - all brought by one member who works so hard to support the people back in the Phils. They have 2 cars and live very well. All the bills from feeding the dog each month are paid by this person working abroad.

It amazes me how they live and are supported by this person while living a great life themselves.