There are a few members who have just made the move and even more who made the move a long time ago.

What I am asking here is, what are the extra costs that are involved in making the move??

The visa cost and the police check and everything else that you have had to do?

I do not need to know the rent or the food bills - these are everyday contingencies.

Also, do I need to start the process even before we know the date we are going? Like, if we go on a long holiday, I know I can stay for 1 year as Em's husband. So after that date, could I just stay there and do all I have to do there, rather then leaving and doing everything back here?

Hope you understand!