Quote Originally Posted by grahamw48 View Post
I think it would be better for all if Jack was to 'unattach' himself from the child...hard as that may be initially.
Not as easy as you think Graham. After believing she was mine for 18 months - then finding out the truth - sent me into a deep depression, and after visiting the doctor, I was told to try tablets for the way I felt. But I soldiered on with deep, dark moods and using alcohol to dampen out the hurt, which I realised made it worse.

You see, even after all this, she is my little girl who calls me dada constantly and comes to me for cuddles and reassurance and for her to feel safe. How could I take that away from her? I am not like that, as she is an innocent child.

My wife whom I hated for what she had done and everything I have gone through, well that's the past and I have to move on even though the love has gone. I will always love this little girl though, and even if she's 7,000 miles away, in my eyes I will always be the only father she has known.

Thanks everyone...