Hi Jack86, Harry has given you some sound advice, but as he said it has to be your decision about divorce!

I married a Filipina in 2008, that I thought the world of and thought we had a future together, but it seemed she did not have loving feelings for me as I did her, but did want to be in the UK.

We had lots of problems. After we married, she had a child by her Filipino boyfriend (that of course I then knew nothing about) before she came to the UK, but I think/thought, she would then leave me but that she could remain working in the UK, to send money to her boyfriend back home.

I divorced her - even though I did not want to - there was nothing else I could do.

I am now 70 and alone, but at least have peace of mind in that she cannot play with my love for her to continue getting money from me.

Go by your gut instinct.
Mick.