Hello again, Jack.

Not a good situation to be in. I think the only way to be with your stepdaughter is to remain as you are but that would entail being in a loveless relationship with a woman you can't trust.

You remind me so much of myself when I was younger, Jack. I changed due to women like the one you have and I can understand how, despite what she's done, the way you still care for her. My Filipina ex and her troops took me for Santa Claus but deep down I still care for her.

I do think you did the right thing choosing a Filipina because your personality with the right pinay will fit like a glove. The only trouble is you picked the wrong apple from the tree but don't beat yourself up about it, because my C.V doesn't look good either.

The only other advice I can give is because of the situation you are in is to put yourself first. There's nothing wrong with being a bit selfish under these kind of circumstances.