Lloydegbrick,

I moved your posting to the Visa section.
It helps to keep important information in one place making searches by yourself and others to be easier.

You've already been through a journey and now you've another journey ahead?

The application, the payment and the VFS application center appointment for presentation of the submission all need to be made online.

Your starting point is the UKBA webpage linked here at :-

Apply to join family living permanently in the UK

Please do take time to read and understand all the webpage links.
Everything you need is there including access to downloadable copies of the application forms for your review.

Both of the downloadable forms you can use as reference need plus the UKVA guidance are here at :-

Application for UK visa for family settlement: form VAF4A

If you have any questions or need clarification please don't be shy to post here in your thread. So many good folks here will freely and honestly share their experience.