Hi for you new guys starting on your journey for the entry clearance/spouse visa. I just want to encourage you not to be discouraged or overwhelmed by all the paperwork; rather take one step at a time.

I used to do mountain walking and if you look at the destination it seems overwhelming in height and distance.

What I used to do is look only at my feet and concentrate on putting one foot in front of the other and suddenly I was there at the top!

Take small bites with all your documents and take your time to read and ask questions.

It felt like a mountain at first to me - but suddenly it was all over - and now we have been married 2 years in August and have a dear little son.

The next stage FLR(M) we shall do the same again. I am starting now in studying the forms even though they may change a little by next August time.

Don't give in ... the effort is worth it and your dreams will come true!