the eu route might just be your answer, surinda singh, the eu citizen (your husband) can take you and your child ,or join him in any european country, excluding uk, the none eu spouse, is entitled by e u law to issue a c visa( short stay visa) to any eu country of your choice, even ireland is allowed, but not northern ireland,
apply for visa from irish embassy, it is free, and not all the requirments like spouse visa,
the requirments to get to uk from that chosen eu country applies to your husband, minimum 12 hrs work per week, or self employed, wage slips , utility bills ect , stay a minimum of 3 months, then you can apply for visit to uk, , even if the none eu has only 1 month visa stamp , you are allowed to stay in irland 3 months by law
, as long as in those 3 months your husband aquires at least 12 hrs work, you both can become residents, then you can forget that visa, you are legal.
here is a link , where you can get all the info you need ,
https://www.facebook.com/groups/6502...95959/?fref=nf
and here
https://www.facebook.com/groups/650212281695959/files/