hi there im not sure in ym coz im quite busy from work and sometimes i do overtime in the weekend and me and my husband goes out in the weekend as well and all i do is just check my email and i hardly go to ym anyway we can talk over the phone if u like maybe soon or whenever u feel like talking but im not forcing u if u dont like its ok for me.i met a friend here but she's living near london and we've talked in the phone twice already but lately havent phoned her anymore coz im busy and sometimes tired after work bu hopefully ill ring her again!